I have anger issues I think - Talk About Marriage
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| Member ?Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Just keepin' my side of the street clean Posts: 882 | Quote:
So he refuses to fight with you? I hope you realize how fortunate you are, because it sounds like you are just spoiling for a knock-down, drag-out fight. And that will solve ... WHAT? Will it absolve your anger? Will it resolve your issues? Doubt it. Uh, no offense intended, but you DO sound like the "crazy" one here. And I don't think you are crazy at all. JMO, but I think behind every angry person is a very hurt person who doesn't want to face the hurt. Maybe it is time for you to address the hurt and say to heck with the anger. Heal the pain, and the healing of anger will follow. Again, JMO. __________________I refuse to make anyone a priority in my life who considers me nothing more than an option. "When the power of love rises above the love of power, then the world will know peace." Jimi Hendrix | |
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| Forum Supporter ?Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: USA Posts: 5,597 | Quote:
About coming to him with - love, compassion, patience and vulnerability. When I was younger, I had some anger issues going on....not too pleased with God... didn't like my family life/situation... my husband never seemed to take this personally -he knew it wasn't about him. I purposely read a couple books on ANGER to understand my emotions & do what I could do to get them in check.... this was all I needed, I even got a book on Humility -thinking I could Up this some. My husband is like some of your husbands here, naturally more a peace maker -conflict not his thing... I have always been able to talk to him about anything though, he never clams up , tries to leave.... It is likely because I have always shown a vulnerable side, humble and sensitive before him.... if I hurt him or did anything wrong from my end, I was always quick to come to him, make it right...put my actions where my mouth was.... soothe him as best I could...until he was "with me in spirit" - this is so very important for connection..and leading another to feel safe with us.
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